I have been thinking a lot about this wedding lately (surprise) and there are some things that I am just going to have to change.
As much as I love every single member of my church family, I don't have the money to throw a blowout for everyone to attend. I just can't. 250+ people is a lot of mouths to feed, a lot of bottoms to provide chairs for, and a lot to handle! A lot of tables, a lot of flowers, decor, etc. etc.
So Robert and I are going to make a list and check it twice and it's going to be a lot smaller than the 250+ we had originally considered.
Now, if I wasn't extremely anal retentive and a stickler for detail, I would say, you know what, forget the tiny little accents on the food table, and just put a couple more biscuits in the basket.. but because I do want beautiful details, everything will have to be cut back just a tad.
Hopefully, it will be beautiful, it will be all I ever wanted.. and hopefully no one will hate us after all is said and done! Hey, you're all still invited to my showers!
Sigh, I feel good about this. Do I feel good about this? Someone people reassure me that I feel good about this.